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10 Rules for Parents with Children in Child Care

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Many parents are working, or just want their child to attend a preschool or a childcare center. An informed parent will be more comfortable leaving their precious child with others.  The teachers and parents need to form a partnership for the best care of each child. The list of rules below can help keep the transition process go smoothly.

 1. Read all notices and newsletters to keep informed of what is going on in the childcare center.

Examples; notes from teachers or director about special items needed,

Toys for share day, field trips, visitors, holiday or other closed days.

2. Let the teachers know if your child has been ill.

This could explain certain behaviors, attitudes or being lethargic.

3.  Let the teachers know if there has been a change in child’s life.

Example; death in the family, separation of parents, new baby, (this too

will help understand a change of behavior in the child.)

4. Sign your child in and out every day on the sign in sheet.

Not only is it mandated by the state, it is needed in emergency situations.

5. Put your child’s name on all items brought to the preschool.

This will help with lost or duplicate items, the child does not always know what is theirs.

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6. Communicate with Director with concerns or problems with staff or other children.

The Director is there to provide the best experience for each family

and form a positive partnership to ensure the best care for each child.

7. Make sure child has extra clothes, blanket for naps, diapers and other necessary items.

The teachers need these to provide the best care for the child.

8. Be the boss of your child; do not let them manipulate you!

Especially at drop off and when you pick them up.

9. Show interest in all your child’s work.

The child is proud of their accomplishments and will strive

to become better students when parents show an interest.

10.  Help with fundraisers and pay tuition in a timely manner.

Most centers and preschools need funding to provide a quality program.

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What Parents Should Avoid when Children First Start School

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For many parents leaving their child at school for the first time is an emotional roller coaster.  They may feel excited and delighted that their child will start school but also feel apprehensive about leaving them.  In my experience as a teacher and director for young children, many parents have a much more difficult time leaving their child at school then the child has in going. It is quite often that I have seen moms (and dads too) go out the front door with tears in their eyes.

 ID-10063156As a parent, it is natural to feel a sense of loss when you separate from your child, just as the child does.  It is best to prepare your child, and yourself, for the separation.  Read books about going to school with your child. For example, Molly Goes to Preschool.

Do your research and find a preschool or daycare center you will feel comfortable leaving your child in.  I recommend to my new parents to visit the school a few times with your child to help them become familiar with it.  Start out with the child staying a shorter time without you for the first few times they go, then work up to the regular time.

I have created a list of what not to do as a parent when leaving your child for the first time at school. These are a few techniques that I recommend to my new families when they first start their child in the center.

DO NOT:

  • Cry in front of your child – it is better to stay upbeat and positive so your child will be less apprehensive about staying, (you can cry after you leave)
  • Sneak out – it is better to say goodbye and let your child know that you are leaving and will be back soon
  • Show your nervousness – your child is sensitive to your feelings and may pick up your discomfort and be worried and scared
  • Hang around after you say good-bye – even if your child is crying, it only prolongs the separation
  • Apologize to your child for leaving them at school – this will send them a message that you are doing something wrong
  • Miss days of attendance – except if the child is ill.  It is best to establish a routine so the child can get use to going to school consistently
  • Let your child manipulate you.  Children can learn to manipulate you at a young age and make you feel guilty when they cry.  Understand that they are scared, but assure them they are safe and you will return to get them.

This list may help the transition to school go a little more smoothly.  Most of all remember that you are the parent and you know what is best for your own child.

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